Getting Engagement Rings in Brampton?
Consider Getting the Whole Family Involved
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If you are looking to propose to a woman in Brampton (perhaps of South-Asian decent), there may be more to it than getting down on one knee and offering an engagement ring.
Statistics tell us that over 136, 000 people in Brampton are of South-Asian decent, of which around 110,000 are East Indian. So there is a good chance that a large percentage of the engagements and marriages in that area will involve some, if not all of the ceremonies of those cultures.
If you are not as familiar with these cultures, but your beloved is, this represents a great opportunity to get to know more about it.
The first thing to do, of course, is talk to her about what she knows. There are lots of way to bring this up without mentioning that you are thinking of proposing. As how her parents met, or what she thinks of traditions around dating and so on (which will hopefully lead to more information around marriage as well).
Now if your girl isn't into that sort of thing and wants things done in a more 'americanized' way, then, feel free to go about giving her that engagement ring any way you would like.
But, if she is a bit more traditional, or if she knows her parents are very traditional and wants to make sure that everything is okay by them, then here are some things that you may want to consider. |
There is an Indian ceremony known as Sagai (name changes depending on where in India you are, but the function and purpose is roughly the same). This is considered to be the beginning of the official wedding agreement - engagement.
It usually consists of the two families getting together and exchanging gifts. The couple may exchange gold rings (it is sometimes called the “ring” ceremony for this reason) and the families would then exchange gifts, usually food-stuffs, which may be consumed in the following lunch or dinner party.
Another variation on this ceremony is that the bride is given gifts of jewelry, clothes, make-up, etc by the mother of the groom, and the groom also receives gifts from the family of the bride. There are other Hindu ceremonies that may accompany these as well, such as a “havan”.
Even if her family is not as traditional as all of this, involving the family in the engagement may go a long way towards bringing you closer to her family. You may want to ask her parents privately about their views on marriage, as something to consider. Or bring them into your plans for how you are going to propose. Not only might they be a resource for elements you may not have thought of, but they may also be willing to help with the “set-up” for the engagement so that your beloved doesn't suspect a thing.
Now all of this is just suggestions and options. Obviously what you are going to do will be up to you. But getting help from her side of the family while planning the engagement ring offer is never a bad idea. Even if there are no cultural considerations, it is a way to start becoming a part of that family long before you officially are. It shows respect for her family and what they think, because at least you were willing to let them know and get their input (even if you are going to do something else anyway).
So take a look at your plans and perhaps see where getting her family involved might make things that much easier for you.
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